Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolemba Polankhula ndi Concision

Lankhulani mwachidule, konzekerani ndi zolembedwa

Pali anthu ena apadera omwe amakonda kuyimirira pamalo owonekera, anthu omwe samawopa kuyankhula pamaso pa chipinda chodzaza ndi alendo. Ndiyeno, pali unyinji wa ife, anthu wamba, amene amawopa kukamba nkhani pagulu. Kuopa kuyankhula pagulu, komwe kumadziwikanso kuti nkhawa yakulankhula kapena glossophobia, ndipamwamba kwambiri pamndandanda wazomwe zimachitika kawirikawiri - amakhulupirira kuti zimakhudza pafupifupi 75% ya anthu.

Oyankhula abwino ambiri sanabadwe kuti akhale pa siteji, koma adakhala abwino pochita zambiri. Oprah Winfrey analankhula pamaso pa anthu ambiri kuyambira ali kamtsikana - ankakonda kunena mavesi a m'Baibulo m'matchalitchi. Pambuyo pake, monga mukudziwa, adakula kukhala wochita bwino kwambiri pamasewera achikazi padziko lapansi.

Ngati simunakhale ndi mwayi wolankhula zambiri pofika pano, musade nkhawa. Mutha kusintha nthawi zonse. Nawa malangizo omwe tingakupatseni kuti akuthandizeni panjira yanu kuti mukhale wokamba nkhani pagulu wabwino komanso wodzidalira.

  

Kudziwa kuyankhula pagulu sikophweka. Koma contraire, ngati mukufuna kuchita bwino pokamba nkhani, muyenera kugwira ntchito molimbika kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Kukonzekera n’kofunika kwambiri pankhani yogonjetsa mantha olankhula pamaso pa anthu. Muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri zolankhula zanu ndi machitidwe anu kuti inu ndi nkhani yanu mukhale osangalatsa kumvetsera. Tonsefe timadziwa mmene timamvera tikamamvetsera munthu amene akulankhula, koma timatha kuona mosavuta kunjenjemera kwa thupi lake, chibwibwi m’mawu awo, ziganizo zomwe sizimatuluka bwino ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zopanda nzeru. Wolankhula wosalongosoka yemwe ali wamantha kwambiri komanso wamantha angafunike mawu opitilira 200 kuti afotokoze zomwe wodzidalira yekha, wolankhula molunjika anganene mu 50.

Musalole kuti izi zikuchitikireni. Njira imodzi yabwino yodziwira luso lanu lolankhula pagulu ndiyo kudzijambula nokha ndi kulemba mawu ojambulidwa. Mwanjira iyi mudzakhala ndi mawu aliwonse omwe mwanena papepala. Ngati muwerenga mawu anu kuchokera m'mawu omwe sanasinthidwe, muwona nthawi yomweyo zomwe zimavuta kwambiri m'mawu anu: Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito mawu ambiri odzaza? Kodi zolankhula zanu n’zomveka? Kodi mumalankhula mwachidule komanso momveka bwino? Mukawona zomwe zili zolakwika, mutha kusintha mawu anu.

Chinthu chimodzi chofunika kwambiri chimene muyenera kudziwa polankhula pamaso pa anthu ndicho kufunika kodula mawu m’mawu anu. Ganizirani mozama pa zomwe mukuyesera kunena ndikuyesera kupeza mawu enieni omwe mukufunikira kuti mufotokoze.

Koma n’chifukwa chiyani kudulidwa kuli kofunika kwambiri pokamba nkhani zapagulu?

Pamene mukulankhula mwaluso, ndi bwino kuganizira omvera. Iwo akukupatsani nthawi yawo yamtengo wapatali ndipo muyenera kupereka chinthu chamtengo wapatali pobwezera. Ndiponso, omvera ambiri lerolino amakhala ndi nthaŵi yochepa yomvetsera. Ichi ndi chifukwa chinanso chimene kuli kofunika kulankhula bwino. Chifukwa chake, uthenga womwe mukuyesera kulengeza uyenera kukhala wosavuta kumva komanso wolunjika. Ngati mukubwereza zinthu kapena kugwiritsa ntchito slang, mudzawoneka osakonzekera komanso osachita bwino. Ndiye mumaika pangozi kuti omvera anu ataya chidwi.

Komanso, mukamakamba nkhani pa chochitika, pafupifupi nthaŵi zonse mumakhala ndi nthaŵi yochepa yochitira zimenezo. Ngati mumakonda kukhala ndi mawu odzaza mawu m'mawu anu mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mphindi zamtengo wapatali zomwe pamapeto pake zingakhale zofunikira kuti mufotokoze mfundo. Pamwamba pa izo, pogwiritsa ntchito mawu odzaza mawu mudzawoneka osalimba mtima, choncho ingopewani momwe mungathere.

Misonkhano

M’zamalonda, kudziwa kulankhulana bwino n’kofunika kwambiri. Muyenera kudziwa momwe mungalankhulire ndi abwana anu, mamembala a gulu lanu komanso chofunika kwambiri, makasitomala anu. Nthawi zambiri, mudzafunika kuwonetsa pang'ono pamsonkhano wamalonda ndipo ndiyo nthawi yanu yowala. Kapena mwina muli ndi lingaliro labwino lomwe mutha kuwonetsa gulu mosadziwitsidwa. Siyani chizolowezi chokhala chete! Kuwonekera kwambiri pantchito ndikofunikira ngati mukufuna kuti ntchito yanu isinthe. Tikupatsirani malangizo abwino omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mulankhule.

• Ngati mukufuna kukamba nkhani pamisonkhano, mwina mudzakhala ndi nkhawa zisanachitike. Yesetsani kukonzanso kupsinjika kotero kuti ndi chizindikiro kuti mwakonzeka kuchitapo kanthu.
• Fikani kwakanthawi msonkhano usanayambe ndipo yesani kukambirana ndi anzanu kuti mumve bwino.
• Osadikirira motalika kwambiri! Yesetsani kuyankhula mphindi 15 zoyambirira za msonkhano, apo ayi mutha kukhala pachiwopsezo chosalimba mtima kuti mulankhule nkomwe.
• Yesezani zimene mudzanene msonkhano usanayambe. Chofunika ndi kudziwa mawu oti mugwiritse ntchito popereka uthenga womveka bwino komanso wolongosoka.
• Ngati kuyankhula kukuchulukirani, yambani pang'ono, mwachitsanzo funsani mafunso amphamvu. Izi zidzakudziwitsaninso.
• Onetsani zoyamba mwakuchitapo kanthu (mwina kuvomera kufufuza mutu wakutiwakuti?) pa msonkhano wotsatira.

Pezani ntchito imeneyo!

Ngati mukukonzekera kuyankhulana kwa ntchito, muyenera kukumbukira kuti oyang'anira HR amasamala za momwe mumachitira (kulankhulana popanda mawu), komanso, amayang'anitsitsa momwe mumalankhulira (kulankhulana mwamawu). Musaiwale, makampani akufa kuti apeze oyenerera omwe ali ndi luso loyankhula pagulu omwe angawawonetse pazochitika zosiyanasiyana. Komanso kulankhulana n’kofunika chifukwa n’kutheka kuti mudzakhala mukugwira ntchito m’gulu. Ngati mukufuna kukhomerera kuyankhulana kwa ntchito muyenera kuyang'ana akatswiri komanso odzidalira, koma ndi nthawi yoti muwonetse zomwe muli nazo polumikizana. Nawa maupangiri ena ofunsira ntchito yotsatira:

• Ndi bwino kulankhula mwapang’onopang’ono kusiyana ndi kuyankhula mofulumirirapo komanso kupereka mayankho olakwika. Ganizirani musanalankhule.
• Mlingo wathanzi wodzidalira nthawi zonse umalandiridwa chifukwa zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi chidaliro kuti muli ndi zonse zomwe mungagwire kuti mugwire ntchitoyo.
• Osasiya kuyesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi mawu kuti mufotokoze mosavuta.
• Konzekeranitu mafunso. Izi zidzakuthandizani kudziwa ngati mukufuna kugwira ntchito pakampaniyo.
• Yesani kupereka mayankho olondola komanso achidule kuti mutsimikizire mfundo yanu.
• Komanso sonyezani kuti mumadziwa kumvetsera. Osasokoneza wofunsayo.

Kodi ndi mavuto ati omwe anthu amakumana nawo akamalankhulana komanso polankhula pagulu?

Ngati mukufuna kulankhula bwino komanso molimba mtima muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mupewe zotsatirazi:

1. Mawu odzaza - Awa ndi mawu omwe alibe phindu kapena tanthauzo la uthenga womwe mukuyesera kufotokoza. Nthawi zambiri mumazigwiritsa ntchito kuti mupeze nthawi kuti mukhale ndi mphindi imodzi yoganizira zomwe mukufuna kunena. Zitsanzo zabwino kwa amenewo ndi mawu ndi mawu monga: kwenikweni, panokha, kwenikweni, mukudziwa, ndikutanthauza…
2. Kuyimitsa kodzaza kuli ndi cholinga chofanana ndi mawu omwe ali pamwambawa, koma amakhala oyipa chifukwa sali mawu enieni. Apa tikukamba za mawu ngati "uh", "um", "er" ...
3. Bodza limayamba kuchitika mukalowa mu chiganizo mwanjira yolakwika ndiyeno osayesa kumaliza chiganizocho, koma mwaganiza zoyamba kuyambira pachiyambi. Kulakwitsa kumeneku kumakwiyitsa omvera, komanso kwa wokamba nkhani, popeza wokamba nkhani amataya kamvekedwe ka mawu komwe sikungakhale koyenera.

Chotero, kuti tipewe mavuto amenewo, uphungu wathu ungakhalenso wachidule ndi kukonzekera mokwanira tisanalankhule.

Kuchita kumapangitsa kukhala wangwiro! Sinthani!

Monga tanenera kale, njira yabwino yokuthandizani kuti mukhale wolankhula bwino ndikudzijambulira nokha mukulankhula ndikulemba mawu amvekere.

Gglot ndi wopereka chithandizo cholembera omwe amapereka zolembedwa m'mawu onse. Mwanjira imeneyi mudzatha kuwerenga chilichonse chotuluka mkamwa mwanu pamene mukulankhula, kuphatikizapo zoyambira zabodza, mawu odzaza ngakhale mawu owonjezera. Patapita nthawi, mudzazindikira kalankhulidwe kanu ndipo mungayesere kuzigwiritsa ntchito, zomwe zingapangitse kuti zolankhula zanu zikhale zomveka komanso zachidule.

Perekani zokamba, zijambulitseni, lembani zojambulirazo ndi kusintha mawuwo, yeserani mawu okonzedwanso ndiyeno bwerezani ndondomeko yonseyo nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi ngati pakufunika kutero. Panthawi ina, mudzapeza kuti ndinu wolankhula bwino ndi masentensi achidule.

Gglot imakupatsirani njira yabwino yopititsira patsogolo luso lanu lolankhula, lomwe m'dziko lakutali lamasiku ano likukhala losowa kwambiri kotero kuti ndilofunika kwambiri. Khalani olankhula mwachidule kwambiri ndipo yesani ntchito yolembera yotsika mtengo ya Gglot. Zonse zomwe omvera anu ayenera kuchita ndikukhala chete, kusangalala ndi machitidwe anu ndikumvetsera mukulankhula.